Which of these is most true for you?

"The last time I connected with a truly exciting guy, I felt myself being

a Vivacious Vixen-- I flirted, giving him subtle cues and encouragement.
an Alluring Enigma-- I played it cool and didn't go out of my way to attract him.
a Helpful Healer-- I did my best to show him I could handle his deeper feelings.
a Confident Collaborator-- I wowed him with my seriousness and focus.
NONE of the above!